Melsy good morning I have been studying with O.U for the past 18 months and I'm just coming to the end of my third short course I just have my final assignment to write. The O.U do a series of 20 week courses called Openings which are designed to ease people back into studying and give them a taster of different subjects so far I have done Understanding Children, Understanding Society and I'm just finishing Starting with Psychology in May I'm moving up a level to do an Introduction to the Social Sciences.
I would love to do more voluntary work and I'm interested in mentoring children but I have a huge number of physical illness including 2 prolapsed discs, osteoarthritis and fibromyalgia hopefully losing weight will help to stabilise these problems, as I wouldn't commit to working with children unless I knew I could on a regular basis. I am very much a people person kind,caring,compassionate and very good with children which is ironic given the following.
I do look after my nieces and nephew on a regular basis as I can not work and their parents all work full-time so I am very involved wth children.
Last night I was thinking about the mind/body/food connections and realised that for a number of years a lot of my experience with food were very negative. 10 years a go I was diagnosed with clinical depression, anxiety and a social phobia - I had a huge fear of people and social settings not the actual going out. During this time I could only drink out of a can/bottle or use a straw and food was limited to things I could pick up with my hands as I shook to much to use cutlery or a cup so I limited myself to fizzy drinks and junk food. Things were extremely stressful and caused huge arguements so I went round in a vicious circle. Luckily I'm now 90% better eating out is now something I enjoy perhaps to much . This turn around has been down to my hard work and determination and a wonderful and very patient Communty Psychiatric Nurse. Even now I still see a psychiatrist and take AD's but my depression is loads better.
I thought I would just tell you a bit about myself well rather a lot as it seems I know quiet a lot about you. You seem to be a real survivor given all your problems and I really do admire you, you could easily give up but you are willing to explore new avenues to help yourself.
I understand SPA is uktv's most popular homemade show but obviously not on mumsnet
Take care and have a nice day will be around later x.