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Bringing Up Baby NSPCC statement

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gorgeousmum · 13/10/2007 20:57

Got this yesterday...

Media Statement

12 October 2007

NSPCC statement in response to parenting method tested in 'Bringing up
baby'

The NSPCC is warning parents that 'Bringing up Baby' is publicising
outdated and potentially harmful methods of baby care and is calling
on TV executives to be more careful when making such programmes.

The programme has provoked one of the highest levels of inquiries the
charity has experienced in recent years, with more than 60 messages
from viewers expressing their concerns at some of the methods it promotes.

One method tested in the programme relies on what the NSPCC considers
as strict, inflexible routines which deny eye contact between parent
and baby during feeding, promote limited cuddling and leave infants to
cry alone for long periods. These rigid routines appeared to leave
some babies and parents taking part in the programme in distress.

NSPCC parenting advisor Eileen Hayes said: "Suggesting that a small
baby could be 'manipulative' is discredited and can lead to
potentially damaging patterns of care. Similarly leaving babies to cry
for long periods is stressful and research suggests it may be
damaging. Strict authoritarian routines pay little attention to
parents' natural instincts about their infants or the wealth of
research that has shown the importance of early sensitive care for
health and well-being. It's the most natural thing in the world for a
mother to want to cuddle and make eye contact with her newborn - and
babies love it as well.

"Babies are born with a social instinct and communicate through touch,
sound, eye contact and facial expressions. This sensitive
communication plays a vital role in attachment, and ensuring that
infants develop a sense of trust and security, which gives a firm
foundation for their growing sense of identity and self-esteem.

"The first weeks after birth are a crucial period when parents and
babies get to know one other. It can be a very challenging time when
vulnerable parents are particularly anxious to get advice about the
best way to care for their baby. Programme-makers must recognise that
some viewers may consider what they see as an approved method. They
have a responsibility to tell viewers when methods are widely disputed
by health professionals and academics."

Ends

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MerlinsBeard · 13/10/2007 21:01

might be worth forwarding that to channel 4 and CV

gingerninja · 13/10/2007 21:03

Brilliant, lets hope this gets as much media coverage as the programme and that awful CV

CrushWithEyeliner · 13/10/2007 21:07

can this be read before the next programme airs? that would be a real achievement

SpookyDooooo · 13/10/2007 21:09

Blimey something does need to be done, i sit & feel very sad watching this program

Rosyspookily · 13/10/2007 21:30

That statement is reassuring to see.

controlfreaky2 · 13/10/2007 21:32

thank god!

TheStepfordChav · 13/10/2007 21:37

Thanks for that. Someone talking sense.

BTW you know that woman bases her methods on those of someone called Truby King? Well, I have a book written in 1938 which quotes him & promotes his methods. It is very dated now, and it does stress getting into a routine, but it doesn't have anything about not having eye contact & not cuddling, so this woman seems to have added her own ideas. (It limits bf to max 15 mins each side, to stop the breasts from getting sore - says most of the milk is taken in first 10 mins. It also advocates cold baths for pg women so slightly bonkers but not as bonkers as she is).

muppetgirl · 13/10/2007 21:38

Have to say pleased with this. e like routine in our house and saved us with ds1 in the beginning BUT calling a baby and 'it?' Watching a mother crying whiulst her children were outside in the back garden with the door shut (I remember shouting at the telly 'OMG she shut the door')

This just shows that just because it's made for telly that it isn't automatically right to do...

Mawma · 13/10/2007 21:43

it should also state " No parent should follow the CV method as she is a complete trout and could never care for a goldfish never mind a baby"

Elizabetth · 14/10/2007 16:35

They should buy some time in the adverts break and broadcast their neglect ad - "johnny has learned to stop crying because nobody comes".

I'm so glad they picked up on her cruel desocialising methods. The Channel 4 producers have tried to make out that this is just an argument about routine.

The best thing now would be for the NSPCC to complain to Ofcom. Maybe Ofcom would take them more seriously than the viewers they always brush off.

longlady · 16/10/2007 16:50

But I wonder if the NSPCC's message will be enough to undo the damage already done AND ABOUT TO BE DONE because tonight, the final episode where they all get together, I can just see the CV trained parents pleased with themselves about their babies sleeping through the night, and ignorant people watching might think yes that's the way to go. God this programme has driven me round the bend. DP always sits there saying 'calm down calm down'.

slayerette · 18/10/2007 21:30

What Mawma meant to say, child-care-guru-lawyer-people, is that 'she is allegedly a complete trout who could never allegedly care for a goldfish...'

JodieG1 · 18/10/2007 21:33

I'm glad this happened.

Angeliz · 19/10/2007 11:51

Maybe this may get a better reponse here.

gerbo · 19/10/2007 14:29

apparently she loves her cats though - saw her saying on TV something along the lines of 'they don't cry so I love them lots, but I give them lots and lots of cuddles' - !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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