What's the verdict on letting children watch LI? DSD has been watching it in secret (not allowed at home). Happy to ban her at ours too but TBH I'd rather watch it with her so I can call out certain behaviour and educate her. Otherwise, it carries on in secret ...
All her friends will be watching it and talking about it, so yes, you’re right, watching it with her means at least you can talk about it.
My D is yr 6 and no way would she be watching it yet, it’s not necessarily that anything really graphic happens, more the way they talk about each other, grafting and what they will and won’t get up to, that is too much for kids.
But by 13 they will be hearing and seeing much worse thing I’m sure not to mention getting up to some of it themselves so I’d use it as a learning opportunity and ask her about why she thinks people are doing and saying certain things.
Talk about the focus on their appearance and how much we ever really know about them as people, the lack of books in the house (I remember last year when Jamie came in and was able to talk to Camilla about a book he’d read and it was like “wow these two are kindred spirits because they’re the only two islanders to have read a book!”) and generally try to get her to see that they are in there for publicity and insta fame, so their behaviour is designed to reflect that lifestyle.