My dad was an hard working man and tried to give us all that he could my mother on the other hand didn't, and when my dad died she got with Harry only 2 weeks after we put our dad in the ground and my 3 brothers and I were very upset over this, but she is saying that we were all happy for them, which annoys me so much (told you a liar). Harry was a working man and moved in just 6 weeks after being together but my mother was claiming still as a single mum () for over 10 months, so why they/she couldn't pay the mortgage(?) I don't know, he was working, she was on dss, one of the benefits was she was getting half the mortgage paid for her/them, so how on earth she got into debt I do not know, my gran bailed her out and pay everything, debt's everything and put her in fort with her mortgage by 2/3 months, but only to lose the house 6 months later again so there's something wrong there if you ask me. Now she is living down the road from me in a very small 3 bedroom house, but she only has 6 children to care for now! In the program she kept say ten ten ten, all the time but me and my brother Gary were not living at home so there was only ever eight!
She read out a poem on the program at my dad's grave side which "I BLOODY WELL WROTE" for my dad only, not the whole world, she had no rights reading that at all, I did get really upset about that, it was the same one I wrote for him when he died, I wasn't coming to terms with the fact he was gone, and my DH said that I needed to sit down and write him a letter or a poem so that's what I did, my mother TOLD me I had to read it in church, I really didn't want to I begged her not to make me, she said that "if it was a poem from one on his children then it's from all the children", my DH stepped and told her to "back off at had nothing to do with her or anyone, it's was from Elishea to her dad", my mother told me I would disappointment my dad like I always HAVE all my life ! One other big thing that made me mad on the program (loads of small things LIKE...... I don't know...... "the whole lot") was she said my dad died at 12.30am and in HER arms, NO, He died at 2am and she had her back to him, pasted out drunk and DRUGed up, my brothers (aged 14 & 17) found him dead just after 2am and my mother was pasted out about 11.30pm I didn't go to bed till 1am which I checked on my dad just before!
My mother is such I liar My mother wouldn't know the truth if it came up and slapped her right in the face!