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channel 5 NOW - the boy who can see without eyes

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Twiglett · 29/01/2007 21:14

had them removed at 3 .. learned to see through sound

read about this in w/e papers .. sounds fascinating

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Twiglett · 29/01/2007 21:22

watch it .. its an amazing concept

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FluffyMummy123 · 29/01/2007 21:22

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Twiglett · 29/01/2007 21:25

its not sad numbnuts .. its amazing .. indomitable strength of a mother's love who brought her disabled son up to believe he isn't disabled

he has no eyes .. he can rollerblade and shoot baskets

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Twiglett · 29/01/2007 21:25

he is rollerblading in the street .. with his friends ..

he can walk on his own .. no sticks / no dogs .. anywhere

he plays feckin' computer games .. WTF!

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wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 29/01/2007 21:55

but he doesn't see. echolocation is a fairly well known concept in the visually impaired world but it can only be totally effective if it is used in a well-known environment.

I rollerscated in the street when I was a child. I rode a bike in the street where we lived, and by means of echolocation (i.e. being able to hear objects as you pass them) I managed to avoid the one lamp post that I passed by centimetres. And when my mum asked how I hadn't hit it the only way I could explain it was that it "went dark past my ears" (I do have light perception but that is all.)

I can navigate round the healthclub without a dog and without a cane, and I do it by being able to hear where I'm going.

But the problems arise when you enter into unfamilliar teratory, or when something in your environment changes. If this lad walked to school one day and there was a hole in the road, he wouldn't know it was there until he fell in it. Echolocation will only realistically work for objects which are in hearing distance i.e. that are close enough to make a difference to the environment you're in, so you can sense that they're there.

And he has a serious attitude problem. Nothing wrong with wanting to be independent, I am one of the most independent people I know, but there do come times when you have to ask for or accept help from other.. In the shops for instance. And there are times when you have to accept that there are things which are simply beyond the relms of your capabilities, like getting a drivers licence.

I believe I can do anything. I live completely independently, the only adaptive technology in my house are my computer, my mobile phone, and the set of talking scales in my kitchen. other than that I do everything a sighted person does. But there are things that I can't do, I can't become a pilot, or a surgeon, or a taxi driver, but equally there are things I can do easier than someone who has sight - I could change nappies in the dark, I could read after my mum said it was lights out, and when the electric goes off, I'm the best person to send looking for candles

and that lad has a serious attitude problem.

Twiglett · 29/01/2007 22:01

oh he does doesn't he

sorry, I've never heard of echolocution before this ...

bored with it now tbh .. off to watch america's next top model

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welliemum · 29/01/2007 22:04

wannaBe, that is very interesting.

Have you ever read a book called Planet of the Blind by Steven Kuusisto?

His parents brought him up as a sighted person, telling him he could do anything he wanted to. He couldn't, because he really couldn't see, and his life improved immensely when (as an adult) he learned some skills for getting around with visual impairment.

I don't think he says it in so many words in the book, but the implication was that his parents' attitude didn't do him any favours actually.

wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 29/01/2007 22:05

hahah I watched it for about 5 minutes before I wanted to slap him.

wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 29/01/2007 22:10

wm no I've never read it. Tbh I think that as a parent it can be so easy to go one of two ways ...

either you refuse to acknowledge that there's a disability, the parents were clearly in denial, and you therefore treat your child as sighted, or non disabled dependent of course on the disability, or you get the parent who just thinks that disability means that the child will never be able to do anything for him/herself and does everything for them, thus ensuring that child will never grow up independent.

I went to school with a few such children, and they were infuriating because some of them literally couldn't do anything for themselves.

it's a fine line though, my parents never prevented me from doing anything, (I even drove my dad's landrover ), but my mum especially still thinks that my disability should hold me back in some ways - think she never really accepted it.

welliemum · 29/01/2007 22:13

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