Violent child desperate parents 9pm C5 now

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saw last weeks and thought maybe others are watching

I watched but found it hard going, I really felt for the mum she looked so broken I am guessing there is a huge back story with her mum - she couldn't even look at her.

I also wondered if there had been dv at some point, it made me feel a bit sick when Jordon said he had been taught to fight.

I hope they continue to support Hazel as thats what she needs more than anything.

Having seen the meeting with her mum, hazel comes across to me as a really angry teenager. Reminds me very much of myself as a teen. I was furious with my mum. I had no idea why. I was just really angry at her. She had done nothing wrong but i couldnt bear to be in a room with her, let alone look at her. I hated her. She provoked such emotion in me and i still to this day dont know why. What happened hazel as a teen has stalled her ability to develop beyond that teenage stage wrt her mum. She visibly shrunk into that chair whilst sitting at the table in her mum's presence, shoulders slumped over and head down like a teen who had been chastised. Peeking up the stairs and then running back down like a child who expected a bollocking. I'll hazard a guess that whatever happened a year ago to cause the rift was due to bad behaviour on hazel's part and i think it was painfully obvious at that meeting that she knew this and thats why she wouldnt talk. Because it would mean admitting that and apologising, which she doesnt feel she should do because her mum behaved badly all those years ago. She needs a lot of therapy to get past that. I really hope she gets it. Jordan isnt the issue in that house either.

Desperately hard and sad situation and I so hope that the therapy Hazel is having, makes a big difference to her and her family. I really felt for them all.

I missed the beginning so have no idea where partner/ husband was, if he ever was.
Poor woman....she was totally broken. Her body language said it all..totally defeated.

I dint agree with you Rude. I think her body language and behaviour near her mum, showed fear. She was visibly shaking before the meeting. I don't know what went on but I think Hazel had a horrid childhood.

Oh yes there was definitely fear there.

We watched it poor Hazel there was more to the mum situation than we knew about i think I hope she gets the help she deserves I just felt so sorry for her.

I Havent posted before but feel like I need to now, I am actually the sister of the mother you are speaking of here and feel that I have to defend my family which was portrayed so negatively. First of all can I say that most of what was said in that programme was lies. My sister is very much attention seeking. The real reason why my mum had not been there to support her as much as she normally would is because for the past year she has been undergoing treatment for cancer. My nephew is the sweetest boy but has found that misbehaving is the way to get his mums attention. His knowledge of violence stems from the t.v and video games his mum allows him to watch. A complaint has been made to channel 5 regarding the lies that they have shown which has had an effect on my families reputation. And more so due to the fact they mentioned my dad who died and so is not able to defend himself but they also referred to me and my child without my consent

I'm sorry your family has been wrongly portrayed.

I hope your nephew's behaviour has continued to be improved, and that Hazel's family unit is a lot stronger and relaxed now.