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Breadline Children on C4. Anyone else watching?

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somewherewest · 09/06/2014 19:41

Or just me?

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Daydreamer57 · 12/06/2014 01:28

Shocked how one person says she on drugs as she sells sex but she told everyone she drinks and is waiting to go in detox so why say she and all sex worker are addicts she never told lies and she wanted her kids to eat wrong or right I be to scared so mine would starve but she been honest so why make a big thing of it the big thing is in this day and ages she has to and a grand mother who has no choice if the child was in care a foster family be well paid she give her job up to fit in with the child school so un fare and the dad doing his best why getting little help show how it is some May claim and waste but most live like the 3 family's you watched so sad and unless thing change won't get better anyone can take ill anyone can lose. A job and then we can all see how head life can be but we should never judge to say by her face you could tell she showed how she needed cheap wine before she could sleep with some one not in her face on the show lol judge and be judged remember no one knows what round the corner till it's to late good luck to all the family's and hope life gets better

CorusKate · 13/06/2014 13:07

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Deverethemuzzler · 13/06/2014 14:01

I don't really think that saying she looked like she took drugs is a particularly bad thing to say unless you are judging her harshly for being on drugs IYSWIM.

Its a fact of life that sex work and drugs go together in a huge amount of cases.

If she was taking drugs I wouldn't blame her and its no better or worse than sinking two bottles of wine a day.

Her life was terrible and she found the strength to do something about it and I hope it worked.

She managed to raise two remarkable girls despite her troubles.

beccajoh · 13/06/2014 14:05

Her girls were old before their years.

Deverethemuzzler · 13/06/2014 15:19

Children living in poverty often are.

WillieWaggledagger · 13/06/2014 15:35

re benefit fraud, i know it's irrelevant to this thread beyond as darkesteyes says the neediest people being punished for a perceived level of fraud that is enormously higher than the reality, but this goes to show exactly that:

the british public is wrong about just about everything

YouAreCompletelyRight · 13/06/2014 17:13

Someone I was very close to, she's no longer with us, did some prostitution in order to feed her kids. She would have never in a million years touched illegal drugs.

Her fortunes changed and she was a wealthy woman by the time she died. She hoarded food though. She had enough in her huge kitchen to feed an army.

BMW6 · 14/06/2014 16:39

Has DLA always been stopped when in hospital or Remission, or is this a Coalition "initiative"?

Deverethemuzzler · 14/06/2014 17:24

Its always been the rules AFAIK.
We just didn't have time to tell DWP every time DD went into hospital. It didn't really register an I think somewhere in my head I refused to believe it was true anyway. I mean why would they stop the money when it was needed most?
So I suppose I committed benefit fraud.

Oh well at least I phoned them the day after she died so the knew to stop it quickly.

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ghostmous3 · 15/06/2014 11:31

Even on this thread, many people still dont realise just how a lot of people have to live. I cant believe how a lot dont realise that gas and electric prepayment meters more expensive, its been on the news and on debate programmes and in the papers quite a few times in recent years.

Im glad that programme was shown, maybe now more people will open their eyes and see.

Deverethemuzzler · 15/06/2014 14:37

Don't we?

I was on prepay when they first bought them out.

Don't do that thing that people do on MN where they breeze in and think they are the only ones who know whats going on.

Its annoying.

ghostmous3 · 15/06/2014 15:45

I said a lot of people, not everyone. And its true, many people dont. Im on prepayment meters too and have been for years. My mum isnt, she couldnt believe we pay more and kept saying just go on monthly,

Some friends of mine are surprised too, they have never been on prepayment and think you can just switch, theydont appreciate it can cost hundreds of pounds to do and i probably wouldnt get permission from the council anyway.

Deverethemuzzler · 15/06/2014 17:01

How on earth can you tell that people on this thread have no knowledge of prepayment metres Confused

somewherewest · 15/06/2014 20:03

This thread has been a real eye-opener for me regarding carers and the benefits system. In my innocence I had no idea the system was this heartless.

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MonterayJack · 15/06/2014 21:40

Our Council has just introduced checks for ALL blue badge holders. So the friend of the lady I'm a carer for, has to go before someone this week to explain why she needs a blue badge. She is:

Over 90
Is on drugs for epilepsy
An aneurism that could pop at any time
Has severe neuropathic pain in her legs after a hip replacement
Is waiting for surgery for a severe prolapse.
She needs a blue badge so that anyone taking her anywhere can park as close as possible to where she needs to go.

I'm sure there are people who abuse the blue badge system but what a waste of time and money her having to go for a check. Not to say an insult.

This programme really brings home some of the things that really need to change within our benefit system.

expatinscotland · 15/06/2014 21:47

Meters are a disgrace because they are allowed to charge so much, and a weekly standing charge, for not being able to take interest-free loans off customers via direct debits for 'estimated' use whether they use it or not and then keep hundreds of pounds in 'credit'/interest free loan for the energy company.

Antiopa12 · 16/06/2014 06:50

The little girl who described hunger as "biting" at her is still upsetting me.

Blondeshavemorefun · 16/06/2014 09:01

I said I didn't releise prepaid meters cost more :( all my bills are on direct debit - tho my friend has an electric meter and seems to pay less then me. She pays think £25 a week where as mine is £120 a month

Ursula87 · 30/06/2014 17:24

I've come late to this thread but I'd like to say that the situation is getting awful and I am appalled at how people are being treated in this country. We are a rich country by the world's standards and these things are happening every day. It's a disgrace.

I have myself been scraping by on a very low income for years due to ill-health. I have a medical condition which makes it very difficult to keep a job, but according to the DWP I'm perfectly fit to work (I am not. Believe me I'd love to work!). I have 2 children and have been sanctioned a few times, once for over 8 weeks! with no money. For some imagined thing. My condition relates to my bowel and until my consultants are prepared to give me a stoma (not yet), then I struggle to go the 3.5 mile trip to my local jobcentre, and also what employer is going to take on someone who needs loo break every 15-30 mins! Or someone who is tired from pain and sleepless nights.

I have resorted to prostitution to make my rent because my housing benefit claim keeps being delayed. I have paid £25 to the bank to get 12 months bank statements and sent everything asked for but apparently they need more documents. My landlord refused to give me a lease for 3 months and without a lease you get no housing benefit. I did know about prostitution before because I used to be homeless as a teenager so I started in order to survive basically. Now at least I can sometimes treat the DC. We are not all drug addicts, but drug addicts are people too, just doing it for perhaps a different, although still valid - reason. I don't like working in prostitution, I hate it, but short of an operation (they say too early, it may improve) being granted or me getting the help I am supposed to from the state, then it looks like this is what it's like for me - the only job I can do which I will not lose the job if I'm in the loo every 30 mins (I just go between punters or just pop out the room they rarely mind much) or take too much time off for illness. I don't know what I would have done without my family helping me out here and there too.

I'd just like to say also that prostitutes are not as we are portrayed by the media - bad mothers etc. I have to pay £60 every day I work to rent a room nearby but far enough away that it is not my own house - just so my children can never be exposed to my working as a prostitute. So my first punter or even first 2 punters in a day I don't actually earn anything - this is all to keep my kids safe. Sure I could work from home when they are at school, but I'll avoid it as much as I can, hopefully never have to.

Luckily I have half decent furniture and a fully equipped kitchen courtesy of my grandmother who was adamant that we all learn to cook. I shop at Lidl mostly (which is 15 min walk from home, luckily) and I make my children healthy and cheap meals from scratch. Porridge, sardines, seasonal fruit and veg sometimes fresh sometimes frozen, some fruit, rice, make own bread, those big bags of frozen fish, a little meat (beef shin is good for stew and casseroles and cheap). I have dreaded prepayment meters for gas and electric, I don't buy hardly any luxuries at all and stick to a strict budget - because I want to get to a point where I don't have to rely on prostitution to make up the shortfall where the "benefits" system has failed me and my children.

It's not just a few cases like mine - the government is directly causing many many people - the ill, disabled, elderly (my ex MIL sits in darkness frequently at least 1 day a week as she can't afford to feed the meter and lives off mainly rolls and chips and she worked her whole life), those with MH issues, carers. The list goes on and on. There are a lot of people slipping through the net.

I would hope that from this programme and this thread - things like this - that people who are comfortably off will really wake up to see the reality faced by many people today, and hopefully it will prompt the people of this country to demand more support where it's needed.

OleOleOle · 30/06/2014 17:38

Thanks for your post Ursula. Best of luck and health to you for the future.

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