I think williamjetfighter originates from outside of the UK from what he/she has said on previous threads. Wherever this is they don't have the same support/welfare structure we do here and so the concept is alien to William.
I have family in Switzerland where life is very expensive and children for example are considered a family event and no money is given by the Govt. I believe that it different if you have a child with a disability though. On the other hand all my relatives work and even in very normal jobs they earn enough to pay rent etc. They don't seem to pay the same proportion of their income in rent as we do in the UK. Make of that what you will as I am certain there are not rent controls etc.
In the UK our housing costs are high, we have one of the poorest level of wages in the EU and as such the Govt has to step in and top up wages to ensure people can afford something as basic as a roof over their heads.
I have no answers, I just believe that those who CAN work should do so but I also believe that wages should cover the basic cost of living which includes affordable housing.
I am in a very fortunate position because two years ago and in my mid forties I was allocated a HA property. At the time (and still) I really needed that support (having never expected to in the past). When I go back to work I now have an affordable rent, I wont be giving this property up as my son is autistic, he might always need to call this house home. Obviously if I ever earn the sort of money I did before that would change and I could go back to the private sector.
I am grateful for the welfare state, I never expected to need it but am so glad it was there for me when life was difficult. Life is settling down now, I am beginning to do some work again....not easy with my son but thankfully I have a qualification which means I can more or less pick my hours.