carefilnow.
parents in this situation don't get , in my experience, much support.
Schools can refer kids for councelling, but atm we have an 18 month waiting list for anger management. And then if the kids go, and don't want to take an active part, you are kind of stuffed.
These are the kids who will just run away if you ground them. Scream and spit and hit youif you try to discuss their behaviour. Basicaly if they stay in their home surroundings they will just run awau to the drugs etc.
It is hard to know what to do in this situation. I have had more than one set of parents in floods of tears, somply not knowing what to do, as their kids were so utterly out of control and refusing to face reality.