Everyone is scared of birth to some degree regardless of age Birth partners, I had my mum and my DP, both of whom were fantastic. My mum said she found it difficult seeing me in pain and not being able to do anything, but aside from that she was really glad she was there.
Is there a local teenage midwife? The one I saw was brilliant, she really was so amazing, and the teen antenatal group I attended was also good - am now helping out there. The midwifery clinic should be able to tell her if there is - or if you're near me I can have a word with my old midwife. There is also a post natal group.
Be prepared for negativity from the general public. I can't decide if its been worse during pregnancy or with a baby, but some people are simply morons. You have to remember that your baby now comes first, and as upsetting as some of the comments can be, just smile and tell them to get lost.
Comforting thoughts; because you are younger, you are less likely to tear, more likely to regain your previous shape and weight with ease, and recover quicker.
I'm disabled, so not at work or college, but am actually very grateful for that. I get to enjoy my DS. And its easier as I'm breastfeeding, so don't have to worry about expressing. However there are qualifications being run at young parent groups nationwide. Personally am starting training as a breastfeeding supporter soon on the request of my midwife.
Make sure you get out and about once your baby is here - got to postnatal groups, the local Big Scream, the story time at the library. Or you will go insane stuck inside with a baby 24/7
Go easy on yourself and be kind to yourself. Having a baby - especially young - is difficult. Its tiring, stressful, frustrating, worrying, intimidating, boring, repetitive... But is also the most rewarding, enjoyable, pleasurable, full-of-pride and amazing job in the world. It is okay to wonder "What the FUCK have I done?!" on occasion - everyone does! Make things easier as well - simple things like having the things you will need for outfits / changing etc in sets so you don't have to hunt round, especially in the first weeks.
Is she on facebook? More than happy to be "added" if she wants someone to talk to.