These are the words my 13 yr old ds said as he left the house this morning!
He was in a strop as he has 'misplaced' his homework diary, for which he blamed me for.
I told him he was responsible for it and after signing it I had given it back to him and hadn't seen it since.
He was then stropping around and I told him to get his lunch and then he was attempting to leave via the back door, banging and clattering and muttering under his breath. I said don't go out that way, the door is broke and I can't close it. He stomped back in and deliberately stood on and broke dd's spade into pieces (admittedly I thought it was her new bike he'd kicked) so I (and I know I shouldn't have) clipped him round the ear.
This obviously caused a torrent of abuse in which he called me a fucking bitch, he stomped through the house, knocking things over on purpose.
I went through, opened the front door with the key and chucked his bag out and told him to go. On his way out he threw his skateboard into the front garden in an attempt to break it.
He then shouted at me to just fuck off.....
I know we both lost our tempers (and I should know better). I don't want to let him get away with his moodiness, attitude and temper though. I have decided to confiscate his skateboard for a while but also to apologise for me hitting him. I know that it's not acceptable for either of us to lose our temper like that but not sure as to how to address it?
Like I said, I know I was totally in the wrong to hit him so I expect a bit of flaming.
Off for school run so any advice/experiences please?!
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MuthaHubbard · 08/07/2008 08:42
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