My 14 yr old (year 9) is a lovely lad but lacks motivation and has a poor attitude towards getting the best grades he can.
Whilst I know this is common amongst teens I’m getting a little concerned as he’s nearing the end of year 9, as he never revises for tests, assessments or end of year exams, never does anything extra to improve his knowledge and (perhaps more worryingly) has almost no interest in improving.
He’s predicted 5-6s. If he applied himself a bit he could move up a grade for sure but equally if he fluffs up an exam he’d get 4-5s. He’s not bothered either way!
Any tips for changing attitude or raising motivation? He’s not interested in clothes, money, trips etc so I have little to entice him.
I want to support him to get the best results he can but it feels like talking to a brick wall. I was hoping by this point he’d knuckle down just a bit but that’s not happening.