So daughter is 16 & has a boyfriend (not long been seeing around a couple of months) she feels should be allowed to stay over night & I have said not yet - I have barely met him, and just feel it’s a bit too soon for overnight stays.
I try to accommodate her & will drop her off/pick her up but have said not every night, it’s been 10.30 week nights & 11/11.30 weekends & pretty much is every night as if not with bf is out with friends, and so today I said no as was already 8pm, but she feels thats not fair. It’s not walking distance for bf or most friends tbh so needs a lift, or train (which do not want her getting back late at night alone) is it unreasonable to say no need a early night?