ungrateful teens

[Kfor]

My 14 years old DD asked me to go shopping, we spent 2 hours in the shops, bought her few things, than 1 hour in the traffic. I came home, marinated some meat, put the laundry away and finally sat on the sofa(exhausted as the week was lomg, me having 2: jobs, hubby being away).

DD walked past me to the kitchen and said:" I am going to make some food as you are too lazy to cook for us "😮

How would you react?

I am finding extremely difficult to stay calm🙁

I have found a sharp look, combined with a suggestion that such remarks are unworthy of them work wonders in my occasionally ungrateful teenagers.

Edited as read post again.

I would say "be my guest, can you make me some too?"

It would depend. I would assume her behaviour is usually ok seen as you took her shopping and bought her things. Was it said in a nasty way or could she have been joking but missed the mark?

oh thats a good one..I should have said it

her behavior is up and down, in general she is a difficult teen..the trip was to try to connect..didnt really work out💁🏻‍♀️

oh thats a good one..I should have said it

I would calmly explain what you've just said on the OP. Teens brains aren't wired like ours but behaviour like this gets pulled up every time in our house. They don't get to talk to me like crap.

I did try calmly, she has overtalked me constantly..couldn't finish a sentence . So still calmly asked to stop over talking me, she continued. I took the things I bought for her, and put it away, maybe she will get it for christmas..I am sure it is unprofessional..but today I am really exhausted go do any better💁🏻‍♀️(she said "I didnt need them anyway").