My 17 year old daughter lives with her grandma and dad. The grandma gets all her benefits etc. They only get her the basics like hygiene etc when i say anything yhey say she gets what she wants im controling her money when its me who gives her it but child says they always tell her to ask me now as her mother i will go without to get the things shes needs. She is in college doing a course she doesnt want to do. She has got herself a job so she can buy herself stuff that they dont get her. Now what im worried about is that her dad and grandma will take her wages when she gets paid and she'll be left with nothing. What can I do to make sure they dont take it . I have told her she will have to give grandma some money as she won't learn when she's older. Her dad is a alcoholic and always "asks her for money"
Any advice will be excellent please.