Not sure if it’s me or if I’m right to be upset
18 year old daughter is mostly great . Wr have good relationship and apart from the odd mood we do get on great
As she’s just turned 18 we have done fun things , party for 40 friends , hotel break , and a bottomless brunch with my best friend and her daughter who is one of my Dd best friends . All in discussion mostly suggested by her .
Today she passed her driving test , the same day as bottomless brunch happening later . So proud of her . Made a big fuss , paid for her go get nails done before we go on family holiday .
At the bottomless brunch she appeared distracted, looking at phone and not her usual self . My friend noticed and asked me if she was ok . I said she was probably tired after her driving test . She said she was v tired and we left early despite her friend saying she was happy to stay out .
On the way home she said could I drop her at boyfriends , it seems she wasn’t that tired just wanted to stay over at his house .
I felt annoyed and a bit put out that I’d gone to a lot of effort and cost only for her to be texting her boyfriend while we were out planning to leave and go to his .
How would you handle this ?
I feel bad for my friend and her daughter too .