First time in a forum guys basically because i don't what else to do. I have 3 girls (14,13 and 9). my eldest is really putting us through it. she has always been high maintenance, but since the hormones have kicked in its becoming unbearable to live with her. the meltdowns are unreal and hurtful (literally sobbing from the morning from hell right now) i have taken her to doctors and they have put her on the pill, to regulate very heavy periods and cramps. I tried a bonding day last weekend just the 2 of us and felt we really got somewhere but 2 days later i am back to square one. she doesn't help around the house, she screams and shouts at me and her father, she is very lazy, her schoolwork is no better, very unmotivated. out of 7 days id say we get 2 good ones. im exhausted and feel like taking myself away for a few days just to get my head sorted, and if it wasnt for my other 2 i would. Does anyone else have this going on???