Has anyone else gone through this or going through it now , my DS has gone to her bfs it’s heartbreaking not having her here at home and miss her so much. She’s only 17, what’s lead up to it is she has done a year at college then her dad in April, who’s barely been in her life and is not a good person to put it nicely as I can ,has got her a job working with him cleaning which is what has started all this trouble, whilst I wanted her to have a part time job and had been helping trying to get her a job for months , she now has a taste of having money and independence and dropped college even after getting high grades in everything but as her bfs house is close to where she works she’s been spending more and more time there as she’s been working more and more and just recently said she’s moving there permanently, we’ve always had such a close bond and she’s always felt she can talk to me about anything so this has hit me so hard and I miss her so so much . She knows I’m against her working with her dad cos of what he’s done in the past so that’s pushed her away too and I didn’t realise at the time I was pushing her away but I just want to talk to anyone who’s gone thru this having their teen move in with a bf or gf and how you cope