So I just had a call from my son's school (he's in year 9 and is 14) a teacher phoned to inform me of an incident that happened Tuesday. So my son was walking down the corridor and pushed one of his friends and he feel into her. Yes this is totally wrong and he will be dealt with. My issue is she started the conversation with "I don't think it's the colour of my skin, my race or my sex" and I'm like excuse me? That's actually thrown me that you've started a conversation like that. She said she has CCTV and the head of year has identified my son as the one that did the pushing and I've said that's fine I'll deal with him later and see if I can also come and view the CCTV. She's told me I don't need to go in as it's perfectly clear that he's targeted her. Anyway I've come off the phone and called the year office and they've said although the teacher was within her rights to call me directly they don't actually know what to do about how she started the conversation as it's not appropriate and they're going to call me back as it's insinuated my child is either racist or sexist which is not the case. What would you do in this situation? He's obviously going to get punished for the pushing but what would you do about how she started the conversation because I'm actually fuming.