DS is 17 and has been heading down the wrong path for the past 8 months or so now. This is about the same time as his relationship started. He’s had multiple warnings in college and spoken about some really concerning things when out with new friends linked to his girlfriend. He will visit his girlfriend in her hometown, which is known to be very rough. Neither families agree that this relationship is good for either of them. There’s constant trouble and issues.
This morning, I had a knock on the door by two police men. They were here to arrest DS. This wasn’t possible as DS is at college today. They asked to see his phone and described one of his jumpers (which he does own). His phone is with him but his jumper couldn’t be found. He said the arrest was in relation to robbery.
They said they didn’t need to make the arrest today if he is at college and then we all made arrangements for me to take him to the local police station on Saturday morning so his arrest goes forward and he is questioned. They said one of his parents should be there (which will be me) and they offered a solicitor, which I agreed to.
I am absolutely beside myself. I am 23 weeks pregnant so trying to remain calm but this is terrifying for me. DS father is coming over after he finishes work so we can talk to DS. His father is a police guard in a local prison.
I feel like I can barely cope anymore. It’s breaking me to watch as a mother. He was the sweetest, most loving child. But he appears to have stepped into the wrong crowd and is now the wrong crowd!
Does anyone have any advice? Thank you.