I'm a desperate mum of a 13yr old daughter who has made false accusations of child abuse against me and my partner. She has struggled since the break up with her father but has accepted him moving forward but not me. I struggled with her behaviour and seeked support through her school at the time who referred me to a family support service as her behaviour was getting too extreme for me and I was not coping with the situation especially while having to come to terms with being in an abusive relationship with her father. she has since moved in with her father and his now family. Prior to her moving we left on good terms but things were starting to fail again and she now has refused to speak to me. I suspect involvement from her dad. in march the police contacted me and interviewed me on the allegations of abuse. I was gutted and hurt as I have struggled but have always bee there for my children, taking care of them when there dad was off on he's weekend cheating on me. I'm still awaiting contact from the police but I suspect it's not going any further but in the mean time I'm not in contact with her and dispite everything I love and miss her. my partner is very understanding but doesn't want any future contact with her. I just need someone who has been through something similar to talk to. I have known many parent to have had issues with their tennagers but nothing like this. I dont claim to be a perfect parent but I know I don't deserve this. please can anyone offer some advice.