First time here! My daughter 15 is a very talented sportswoman and also doing very well at school and popular etc etc. However with me she is awful. She has an older sister who tells me I’m too soft on her but she has been through some really terrible times so I understand why she acts out. The problem is that it’s destroying me - I work very hard and she’s still annoyed if I can’t get her everything she wants. Most people see her as dedicated and her goals are quite likely to be achieved so I want to support her. However she says she doesn’t like me being around and that I make everything worse. I’m scared of her temper and it seems I’ve created a monster. She says if she has to give her sport up she will kill herself. She won’t talk to anyone about it and the school say she’s absolutely fine. I’m worried that I’m going about everything wrong and don’t actually know what to do. I can’t tell my friends what’s she’s like with me because I want them to like her and obviously I do love her - I just can’t carry on like this.