hi i was wondering if anyone could offer some insight as were at a total loss so basically my 15 year old SD has been refusing to come home for nearly 5 weeks now she doesnt like rules and boundaries she walked out our front door for school then got herself suspended within the 1st hour of her being in school we were asked to collect her from school she refused to come home made allegations against my partner of him so called hitting her police have since done an investigation and NFA'd it as no truth in it shes been staying with my MIL and they havent helped the situation 1 bit as no rules or boundaries there so now she loves it there and doesnt want to come home social services have been out done there assessments she even made an allegation against the social worker as he basically told her she needs to come home there is no safety concern nor safeguarding concern in which she wasnt happy about shes saying if shes forced home shel just run away the police have said shes free to come home social services have put it in there assessment she is to come home we have a family support worker who has said she can only try which isnt exactly helpful she has no reason to not return dad sat with her and calmly had a conversation on what she wants to happen when she came home she jad a few requests which he agreed to as long as she kept her head down at school and didnt treat him like crap as she does and they was fine then the next day shed been in touch with bio mom who has made everything 10X worse and told her she doesnt need to listen to social services she can do as she pleases basically and now she has blocked us both and refusing to speak to us