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DD 14yo overdose

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xxWalnutWhipxx · 12/02/2025 11:39

Hi, I’m not sure what I’m doing. I just wanted to vent and find support from anyone who’s been in a similar situation. I’ve spent the night in A&E with my 14yo DD as she’d taken an overdose of paracetamol and cocodamol. She has a history of cutting so this is an escalation. She’s been seen by the psychiatric team, and I’m guessing usual referrals are taking place to crisis team, camhs, children’s services etc.
She says she regrets taking the pills, but can’t explain why she did it, she says it’s all a blur and can’t understand herself. She gets very low moods which sometimes I’ve put down to her hormonal cycle. She’s previously had CBT therapy, counselling and such which helps for a little while. I don’t know what else to do other than be there for her and remove the risks etc. We’re very close and she’s open with me with how she feels. I just feel helpless and overwhelmed by it all. Any support or advice would be appreciated.

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sixtyandfabulousofcourse · 12/02/2025 15:50

I am no expert but I know from experience that age is a mass of hormones and upsets. school is a big pressure not to mention friends. there is obviously things underneath which she needs to resolve; with me it was being abused. is she being bullied? cannot cope with something at school? being under too much pressure with school work?
I doubt any of that is any use but I send my love to you both and hope she will soon see light at the end of the tunnel

xxWalnutWhipxx · 13/02/2025 10:18

Thank you for replying and sharing your experience.
She’s had a rough 2-3 years, there was some bullying at school when she went into Year 8 which then led to her changing schools and she’s been doing much better at her new school. We’ve also had to deal with several bereavements as I lost my mum, dad and sister in a short space of time so that’s been very difficult as well. I also got divorced in that time but she was happy about that as it wasn’t a particularly nice marriage towards the end (this was her stepdad, we have a good relationship with her dad and he’s been great). So I’m aware she’s had a lot going on plus the usual stuff teenagers have in general at this age. She’s been having support through counselling during this time but that did ease off last October as things were improving.
I’ve got the crisis team coming out tomorrow as a follow up, not sure what to expect from them.
I’ve spoken to her school and they’re being great so hopefully she’ll be able to go back in soon.

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LostittoBostik · 13/02/2025 10:19

Sounds like she's had a huge amount of change in her life recently.

If you can afford a private psychiatrist I would invest in that.

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