I'll try to explain this as well and briefly as I can.
DS3, who is 15, has quite a lot of anxiety around school. It's his GCSE year, and so far he hasn't performed well in exams, he just crumbles on the day, even if he knows the stuff.
He has a real thirst for learning outside of school. Most of the lessons he does at school he sees as a waste of time and getting in the way of things he actually wants to do. He is into music, is learning the piano and the saxophone. He does drama classes. He goes to the gym. He started teaching himself Japanese a couple of years ago and once we realised how serious he was taking it we found a tutor for him. He loves the things he does outside of school and refuses to drop any of them however he is getting so stressed with not having time for all the things he wants to do. He has gone to bed this evening in such a state because he hasn't done all the things and just kept repeating "I don't have time, i don't have enough time". I'm worried about the pressure he's putting on himself and wonder if anyone else has experienced this?
It sounds as though it's "nice" to have a teenager interested in so many things, but after going through the mill with DS2
in other ways, I feel like I'm poorly equipped to deal with this one. Any thought appreciated!!