When my son moved schools in year 1 I was happy for him and he adapted really well. My husband has bonded with my ds and this other boys dad since we moved to the village. I bonded and also had a little friendship with this boys mum, in which we did a few walks together and then I joined her circle of friends in the same year as my ds. My son has remained friends with her boy and now in sixth form together my DH has made a close bond with his dad. My son and I argue all the time and he brings up all the time that I hate or slag off his friends family… apparently two years ago I called the son an areshole when I was drunk, which tbh I can’t remember… the Mother is very protective of her Ds which I understand My DS keeps asking me why I hate his friend and family, which isn’t the case at at all. I find it weird when I went out with my ds friends mum last week, she knew more about my Ds than I do… I keep thinking this boy and his mum is Fing me over and after 10 years of this it’s starting to piss me off and my husband keeps kissing this family’s arse and I am the bad person in all of this..