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Solo holidays.

19 replies

NChangenowp · 11/07/2024 15:38

Do teens go away at 17 alone? Ie no parents?
Help.

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SonicTheHodgeheg · 11/07/2024 15:40

Is anyone in the group 18 so they can get a hotel or Air B&B?

I have a 17 year old who could do it. He’s August born so would be going away with 18 year olds which makes things easier.

NChangenowp · 11/07/2024 15:49

My dd 16 now 18 next summer is pushing for a solo holiday. Help.

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NChangenowp · 11/07/2024 15:51

17 next summer.

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Comedycook · 11/07/2024 15:53

As in totally alone or with friends?

NChangenowp · 11/07/2024 16:08

With other 17 year olds. Is this a thing? Do they all go on hols without an adult?

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CheeseSandyWitch · 11/07/2024 16:09

I went on a coach trip with my friend to Disneyland for a few days when we were both 16. We had a great time. Our parents agreed to it as it was a single coach full of families that went directly there and we weren't going to leave the theme park which we both had visited before so we knew our way around.

NChangenowp · 11/07/2024 16:13

They are talking about albufera. And other clubby places. Has anyone sent their dds there at 17 unaccompanied?

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titchy · 11/07/2024 16:20

End of sixth form is quite common for DCs to have first parent-free holiday. Obviously some will still be 17.

Summer between year 12 and year 13 - some will go abroad with just friends. some to a UK festival, some elsewhere in the UK. Some won't have a friends only holiday.

NChangenowp · 11/07/2024 16:25

This is between years 12 and 13.

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NChangenowp · 11/07/2024 16:25

Between L6 and U6.

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PollencaCalling · 11/07/2024 16:27

With a group of all 17 year olds outside the UK - absolutely not. Hotels wouldn’t even allow the booking with no 18 year old.

Djsjsh · 11/07/2024 16:29

DD did in year 12 yes. And again when she was 18 in year 13

AppleCream · 11/07/2024 16:33

My DS went on holiday with his friends when they were all 17/18 - just in the UK though. I went inter railing around Europe with a friend when we were both 17, I'm relieved he didn't ask to do that but if he had I would probably have said yes.

Beamur · 11/07/2024 16:40

DD has been away with friends in the UK. All 16 or 17 years old. Sensible bunch, no drama.
I wouldn't be happy for her to go abroad until she's 18, partly just down to maturity.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 11/07/2024 17:33

At 17 (only just 17) my DS went to Spain with a group of about 5 of his friends to the family villa of one of them with the boy's father . He was a pretty relaxed sort of person so they were all out having a drink in local bars etc but he was there in case of any problem . I thought this was a good balance .

I'm not sure I would be happy if they had gone without the adult there - although I would have been fine with the UK.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 11/07/2024 17:37

What people are saying about the hotels and being under 18 - DS and his friends had a few hotel stays at 17 when going to gigs. They booked them online and no-one demanded ID. This was about 5 years ago .

limegreenheart · 11/07/2024 17:51

Albufeira may not be feasible if they're all under 18.

First of all, non-resident, non-EU citizens under 18s entering Portugal must be accompanied by a parent or someone with parental responsibility. In lieu of that, they can carry a signed letter from the parent or guardian, but it must name and provide contact details for an adult who will be responsible for them while they are in Portugal. And finding a place to stay, as PPs have said, can be a big challenge as even many hostels require an 18+ person present at check-in. They may find individual apartments, complexes, or even hotels that don't have a lower age limit or have 16+ but it'll really limit their options and there may be a hefty security deposit. And while clubs will generally let in anyone 16+ with ID, the legal drinking age in Portugal is 18 and it's usually (and increasingly) enforced in popular clubby places that attract international tourists (sometimes less so off the beaten path).

As far as whether he should on an international trip at all - if he seems sensible and mature, knows the people he's travelling with well (ideally you have met them too and don't have specific concerns about their behaviour or judgment), has a realistic idea (ideally, prior experience via family or youth trips) of international travel, and has the money, I'd consider it - just make sure he's prepared. And set guidelines and expectations about how often he'll communicate with you when he's away, and what he'll do in case of an emergency, as it's very natural to worry!

elQuintoConyo · 11/07/2024 17:52

A friend and I went to Tunisia when we were 17, back in '96, found the holiday on Teletext!

DH went from Spain to Dusseldorf when he was 15, hated it, travelled back in his own pre-mobiles, his parents weren't expecting him. There was a knock at the door from a puzzled taxi driver who dh was trying to pay in Reichsmarks 😂

Life is full of adventures!

3WildOnes · 11/07/2024 17:53

I went abroad with a grouo if friebds after my GCSEs and loads of my friends went interailing after GCSEs.

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