My dd14 has had an awful time since starting secondary school started with friendships, then bullying. My latest problem with her is she is having problems with teachers now, she isn't a trouble maker but she hates the school and I think this shows when a teacher makes an accusation. She holds grudges and is very vocal about injustice. I've no doubt this shows in her face/body when being spoken too. Her grades have gone from well above average to below. She's very angry that her latest assessment grades are awful but I have explained that this time she done little to no revision. She tells me these grades don't matter and next year when she starts her GCSE's she is going to study and pull them up. My question is with how the teachers feel about her and her hatred of the school will she be able too, how do I change her mindset to what it was when she started secondary school. Her self esteem is low, she thinks she isn't smart enough, did your teenager just click and realise that they can do well even with all the history at the school?