First time posting here so bear with me.
I have a teenage daughter (16) who seems to be unhappy all the time. She grew up in Australia and we have been back in the uk for 4 years now.
She had a very bad break up with her first proper boyfriend last year who likes to play a lot of mind games with her over social media when they finished, I told her to block him but she liked the fact that they were in contact and went against my advice. Anyway I had to get the school involved as she ended up losing 16kg of weigh and had to seek medical intervention with her in the way on anti-depressants...........she had to have the torture of seeing him every day which was very hard for her. Anyway we are now 12 months down the line and shes put the weight back on and has nearly moved on from the breakup though it cost her mental health at the time.
3 weeks after the breakups she was assaulted by one of her friends in the shopping centre, this girl was fuelled on drugs and carrying a blade, she managed to get away and the police dealt with it and we managed to get a CPN order on this girl and she was then kicked out of school luckily. Anyway her friendship group have supported her in all this, especially her best friend.
now I have a situation that her best friend has now gone off with another girl who has a car and my daughter is left out. Her best friend is now ignoring her calls and messages and does not include her in anything anymore. I feel so sorry for my daughter she's had a very turbulent 12 months and can see the sadness in her eyes. She cried her eyes out to me the other night wondering why she always gets hurt, she gave her friendships/relationship 110% but seems to always get used or hurt.
My question is as a mum what can I do, I feel like I spend most my days worrying about her.