My child is in year 8 and currently signed off by Gp.
They have been mistreated from SLT lead. Legal advice is pointing towards a discrimination case.
List of wrong doing :
Failed to report my childs self harm whilst in school to safeguard lead. Goveners, PRT , EH & academy trust have acknowledged it. Safeguarding had to change whole school policy around it.
Failed to provide SEN provisions for my child as it turned out we had a distant family connection to SEN lead. SEN lead admitted infront of professionals that she had been avoiding my child, because of a connection at TAC meeting. I have never had a invite to a review or had any paper work for SEN needs since starting in yr7. Goveners/ academy trust acknowledge this.
My child has stress incontinence, it took 9 months to receive a toilet pass after been promised it. Goveners/ academy trust acknowledged this.
GDRP rules been breeched by teacher to another student about my child.
There's been plenty of other minor things, but pointless to mention as bigger fails more important to deal with.
Child has been through ladder of local offer I.e. BOSS, Ed phycologist, various other strategies but always refused ECH assessment and EBSA.
Ed phycologist report was really good and put forward a whole new way school had to deal with my child. Proved that my childs disruptive behavior in class was not a CHOICE ,(the termonallgy the SLT lead always used with my child)but as Ed phycologist said it was because of intense emotional arousal. My child was in fight/flight mode every time they enter school grounds or talks about school.
My child got excluded 15 days last term due to SLT removal as my child tried anything to get out of the work as they wouldn't supply appropriate work for academic age (age 7 years 11 months in core subjects).
Went to Goveners Disciplinary hearing, unfortunately cause the Ed phycologist report wasn't received till after the15 days exclusions had happened, they couldn't take it in to consideration to uplift the exclusions, but I was pleased meeting went ahead as got a chance to say the child's voice for once.
Whilst waiting for meeting there was a point of contact for both us and the school, which was one of the leads at the academy trust (SLT leadership's manager) , but again school breeched this several times and made out the provision was in place for our family and not them. They soon got put right by this lead at the academy. That poor woman has had to apologise 4 times in the last month on behalf of the school.
Only just got told they was posting hard work copies out to my child after asking a full half term.
EH worker has blamed school of victim blaming my child amongst backing us up on other things.
Gps have signed my child off due to stress incontinence severe and mental health severe.
CAMHS (iapt team) are saying its all schools fault.
PRT agreeing that school has been in the wrong.
Currently waiting for private eCHP plan and diagnosis, children's services have now trained in EBSA so they're putting my child on that pathway so she can access a hospital school.
At home where child feels 100% safe they're mainly calm, normal teenage stuff, but have learnt many domestic tasks in the home.
I have two other younger children missing out on valuable time spent on them and one of them starting to avoid school.
I've had to ask school if they cannot contact me for 24 hours just so I can get my child another drs appointment as stress incontinence has been severe since goveners meeting. School was still emailing at 20:20 last evening and starting again at 7:30 am this morning.
I'm not normally one for posting on forums, but hoping there is someone who might have more knowledge of cases like these or a professional what has experiences in this field. Would also like to know if anyone's experiencing anything similar happened or happening to them.
We as a family are in severe stress at the wrong doing happening to our child currently and just want our child to be able to access a healthy education.