Will try and keep short. Going to get judged so am ready for that. Daughter has had boyfriend for 3 years, during which time I have been going through prolonged break up with daughters dad. Boyfriend is a bit autistic and very black and white.My Relationship with daughter has been fraught at times, probably due to me being depressed over the break up issues. A few times we have had words, she has told boyfriend and now that’s all he sees me as a nasty person. Boyfriend and daughter had a row, he said stuff about me and said to her, accept I have an issue with your mother and that’s how it’s going to be . She’s upset, but in a way I feel, I have deserved some of the comments as I have flown off the handle and said some nasty stuff to her probs taking my issues on the break up out on her. I am sorting my life out. However, I feel he only sees the wrong stuff I have done.l, I am honestly not all bad . I don’t really know what to do as in should I say something to him as I don’t want him to think I am interfering with the relationship as he has accused me of that in the past. Any help appreciated