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Gifted teen

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Mollymusic · 15/08/2023 09:34

Hello all
my first post and came here looking for guidance and some reassurance if possible.
we have had a rough end of term with my daughter who is 15. She was quite cruelly excluded on a weekend camping trip by a group of her long-standing friends. She took it very hard indeed. She is increasingly out of step with her peers. She is likely gifted (we haven’t tested her) but is forcast all 9s in her GCSEs and does this fairly easily on top of a myriad of other clubs and activities. It’s at a stage I think where she is finding it harder to fit in. She is busy during term time due to all her interests but the holiday has proved hard. We do all we can to support her. She is lively and exhuberant and I think this enthusiasm sometimes annoys others. I don’t want to dent her self esteem or change her to fit in but I’m struggling to know how things will go when she goes back to school in a few weeks. Any thoughts, advice or perspectives are appreciative as it’s hard to talk to mum friends locally as everyone knows every one! Thank you

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DippyDoppy123 · 15/08/2023 11:55

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Strugglingtodomybest · 15/08/2023 12:03

@DippyDoppy123 I think you need to start your own thread.

@Mollymusic I'm not sure what you're asking to be honest. Are you after advice on what to say to your DD about fitting in? Or advice about what to do during the holidays?

Catsfrontbum · 15/08/2023 12:17

Are there other clubs she can continue to do during the holidays and extend those friendships. Dd has done a week of theatre and a week of orchestra this summer, then we have a 2 week family holiday. A couple of days here and there with buying uniform and getting school ready the holidays have been broken up.

Geneticsbunny · 15/08/2023 14:21

So she is ahead academically but behind socially? I would focus on supporting her to develop better social skills. Sounds like she will cruise through her exams fine. Encourage her to have friends over to the house or support her to do activities with friends. Does she only have one social group?

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