My 19 year old nearly 20 has just finished second year uni. She lives in halls in London. She came home in June for hols/work (which is next door) . All was good. I got back after an overnight work trip to find a typed note out of blue saying she got her results after “marking strike” by lecturers and failed two exams and had moved back to uni to revise and would commute to job. Since then she won’t take calls/has totally cut off. She’s a bit in touch with her father (divorced and has never looked after the kids/lived with them for 10 years). Suddenly got a message saying it was all my fault that she failed, she needed her space. I’m heartbroken. There was no fight and no friction. I’ve looked after her and DS myself. Any thoughts on what I should do?