My daughter is 13, she had a group of friends at school, the dynamics changed between and there seemed to be tension.
Anyway a couple of weeks later one of the girls made a group chat asking my daughter who her friends were, she said them and then they all joined into to say they weren't her friends and laughed at her.
It started with them tagging each as friends and not her, then telling her that she has to dress up a certain way to go out to make a fool out her.
She ended up sat on her own ringing me constantly wanting to come home crying.
Fast forward a few months, she now wants to move school. She has made some new friends but still isn't happy.
I decided to approach one of the mums I know to ask her if my daughter had done something to upset the girls, just to try and get to the bottom of it as moving schools seems drastic.
The mum basically told me that my daughter has has talked about all the girls behind there backs and it's come round to bite her. She said her daughter was upset because she invited her round but she went to another friends instead and took lots of pics and then later after the fall out my daughter has reported her daughters tic to account so lost there videos..mum is furious about this.
So my point is - does my daughter deserve to be pushed out and sit on her own laughed at and have her chair pulled out on her. When speaking to the mum, she just seemed to think she has brought it on herself.
I'm unsure what to think here? - surely they ll talk behind each others backs, there 13?. I feel pretty shocked by her almost condoning that behaviour but if she's bought this on herself or is it tough love?.
I'm seriously thinking of moving schools, she has her primary school friends there and it would be a fresh start??. Or should I just let things work themselves out?? I just hate seeing her upset.
I just don't know what to think...