My DS uses his bed as his command centre and is spending 16 hours a day in it. He's not depressed or anything, he just really likes bed - warm, cosy etc. It's driving me completely mad as it's so unhealthy but he just won't budge. The average day is that he wakes up, goes to school, walks in the door after school, strips off to his underwear and goes straight into bed not emerging until he has to go to school the next day apart from to eat. All of his exam revision as been done from bed, even though right next to his bed he has a massive desk and an ergonomic chair. He tells me the chair is uncomfortable which I don't believe for a minute. When he's not in his bed, he's in mine - and I've also got a massive desk in my room and an even better desk chair. I've told him that what' he's doing is completely unacceptable and very unhealthy but he doesn't take a blind bit of notice. He also has a preference for totally crap food which drives me mad even more. If chocolate/biscuits are bought he hoovers them up - I now lock them in a filing cabinet which seems ridiculous. As I said above, he's not depressed. He's happy as larry, has a great bunch of friends and does get out of bed to go out with them. Does absolutely no exercise though. He's about 6' 2'' and before zooming up in height, he was a bit overweight which he acquired during lockdown (we don't have a garden and we both became a bit sloth like at that point). Getting tall has stretched him out so he's now back in the normal range weight-wise but I'm watching him like a hawk to see if the weight is going to start creeping back on (he doesn't know I'm doing that). I've tried a) telling him that staying in bed is completely unacceptable and b) getting really angry which gets him out of bed on that day but he's back in the next day. I've contemplated locking all of the bedding in the car and when his exams end (which seems ridiculous), I'm thinking of breaking down is pocket money (£10 a week) into daily amounts that he loses if he a) spends too long in bed and b) doesn't do any exercise - we have a swimming pool 2 minutes away and I want him to do 20 lengths a day to start getting back into fitness (he's a great swimmer). On the food side of things, I was also thinking of starting Hello Fresh (or one of those things) so that we could cook meals together to draw him away from the crap he buys when he has money. Please wise people out there - what would you do in this situation.