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gender Fluid 16yo? Is this real?

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annalikespaint · 09/05/2023 23:01

My 16yo daughter came to me last night and told me she believes she is gender-fluid. she described it as someone whose gender changes over time, but I've never heard of it. I am very worried for her and concerned it has something to do with her friends or Social Medias? I've been worrying about it all day.

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tailinthejam · 09/05/2023 23:08

Her emotions (and hormones) are all over the place. She needs you to be her rock at the moment, whatever your feelings are about it.

MrsSkylerWhite · 09/05/2023 23:09

It’s real for her. I’d just be there to listen (without judging).

SugarAndSpike · 09/05/2023 23:10

I'd never heard of it either!

I guess all you can do is be there to listen and be open minded, let her know you are supportive and will love her unconditionally Flowers

adriftabroad · 09/05/2023 23:14

Completely normal and dare I say it understandable. The porn/shit shared online at school is horrific.

adriftabroad · 09/05/2023 23:16

ie I amtotally relieved my DD is gender fluid. I think I might be too.😄

FlyingOrCrying · 09/05/2023 23:20

As long as she understands she’s a girl, that her sex is female, then gender really isn’t important.

annalikespaint · 09/05/2023 23:24

I think i will have another conversation with her tonight to better understand what she's feeling. I want her to feel loved and that she can rely on me.

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adriftabroad · 09/05/2023 23:27

I would relax aboutit. Everyone is "gender fluid" atm.

Hellocatshome · 09/05/2023 23:31

Honestly as a parent of a teen I think its a bit worrying you have never head of gender fluid. Do you know about being non binary or a sexual? If not you maybe need to do some research so you can support your teen. These are all things that are very important in their world and not being aware of them is not a good starting position for being supportive.

savoycabbage · 09/05/2023 23:43

It's all the rage. How she is feeling is probably the feeling of wanting to fit in with her peers.

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