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Teen wants to buy massive sword with Birthday Money...

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Notsurewhatodohere · 24/04/2023 22:02

My 13 year old got some Birthday Money from friends and relatives and wants to buy a 1 metre long Japanese Kantata sword with the cash to display in his bedroom... They say they would put it away when friends visit and that they can legally buy it but I'm not very comfortable with the idea. DS is generally sensible and very interested in sword fighting. Generally I'm ok with him spending his own money as he wants but would it be irresponsible not to block this? Thanks!

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cansu · 24/04/2023 22:04

You absolutely should not allow this. This is akin to kids having access to guns for sport or whatever because they are 'responsible'. You would be allowing access to a dangerous weapon. Buy him a picture to display.

watcherintherye · 24/04/2023 22:04

A 13 year old interested in sword fighting + a 1 metre long sword? I don’t think so, do you?

cansu · 24/04/2023 22:06

I have just looked at them. Are you serious??

UndercoverCop · 24/04/2023 22:06

Absolutely not. A 14 year old almost killed a 16 year old with one of those 'ornamental' swords near here less than a month ago.
Weapons are unnecessary.

SleepyRooster · 24/04/2023 22:06

No.

Suzi888 · 24/04/2023 22:08

Is this a slow night? In what alternate universe is this a good idea?

Singleandproud · 24/04/2023 22:10

This is an easy one to say no too. I would not be having weapons in my home. Regardless of if it was for decorations.

Support him in taking up fencing instead.

Chunkybuttfunky · 24/04/2023 22:28

Have a look at the offensive weapons act, it’s recently changed and includes more stipulation around weapons that cannot be kept in the home.
I agree with the above posters but if you’re looking for a “reason” if you like rather than just having to say no, then this may help

Ravageur · 24/04/2023 22:36

Oh give over op

BartsLongLostBro · 24/04/2023 22:39

I would consider letting mine as an ornament. He has a small knife already. It just... sits there....

lljkk · 24/04/2023 22:41

NOOOooooooooooooooooooo

It's something he can look forward to doing when he's an adult.

HeidiUpTheMountain · 24/04/2023 22:41

It’s katana, not Kantata - and of course you don’t buy one for a child. But good try.

thenightsky · 24/04/2023 22:42

Ah yes. DS wanted a katana for his 13th birthday too. We got him a wooden version instead, with the promise he could have a real one when he got his black belt.

By the time he got his black belt at age 19 (kofukan karate) he'd lost interest in ornaments for his room.

Notsurewhatodohere · 24/04/2023 23:44

Thank you for the helpful comments, some good thoughts and possible solutions here. I was thinking along the lines of suggesting a Japanese print featuring a Katana rather than the real thing, a wooden one could be an option too.

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Notsurewhatodohere · 24/04/2023 23:59

Thank you for the info on the offensive weapons act also Chunkybuttfunky that is useful to have. To those who would never consider the idea of a metal Katana how would you feel if your child was visiting a friend who had a wooden Katana as a display piece, would that concern you?
Thanks!

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