So
I hope I don’t get vilified for this
my dd is 12 and wants to go to a party of her friends but has told me they do drink alcohol
Albeit limited. Parents are liberal and are of the view that if they are there to monitor then it’s ok! technically they are alllwed two each
my dd wants to go but doesn’t want to lie to me. She doesn’t want to be left out but has asked me if there js anything very low alcohol like wkd 1 she could take 1 of too more give the effect that she is drinking than actually drinking.
if you’d of asked me a year ago I’d have sworn blind if never even considered this however I feel she has come to me to ask been honest and suggested a compromise so I want to work with her on this. Wwyd?
i don’t want her drinking alcohol at all she did bloody 12 for christs sake but I also don’t want her to start lying to keep up with her friends
but then I think where does it end ? If I allow this then will there be another party and another and then I go back to thinking well at least this way I can control it, but then I go back to she could be fibbing and just getting herself to the party.
fyi I have already said that I never ever allow her to stay over elsewhere when there’s a party on