So here goes I have a 19 year old daughter who has consistently gone from worse to worse with the 3 bf that she has had. She no longer lives at home as was moved out of the family home by the domestic violence team. Thsts a whole new story. So she had a decent job in a hospital tgen met the current bf. It's been a year and quite frankly he is the pits. She has announced she is pregnant to say I'm devastated is no lie. Its not so much the baby it's him. He doesn't work sponges off of her. He is lazy and a heavy weed smoker. He lies and she believes everything. He has manipulated her in such a way I never thought woukd be possible. He has tried to isolate her from the family and plays the poor me routine with her. He is just vile. This weekend was a farce as he accused me of bad mouthing him to family. All hell broke loose. No family member like him and we all know he won't be sticking around but she won't be told she won't listen to reason. He spoke to me in a way I've never experienced and I wasn't the only one. 2 of her cousins got it to. She keeps saying I want everyone to be civil etc no one wants to look at him let alone talk to him. I just don't know how to navigate through this. He truly is the worst of the worst. Likes to threaten me that I'm not seeing baby etc. They can't look after themselves at mo without my input for food gas etc and yet he slates me while eating the food I've put in. I just don't know what to do or how to handle it I'm terrier for her long term future and fear for her when her bubble bursts. What woukd you do?