Dds and their friends seem strangers to deodorant and clean clothes. Dd2 is not too bad but has to be told to shower, wash her hair and use soap and deodorant. It's alien to me as when I was a teen in the late 80s early 90s we were really into smelling great and showering with all the things the body shop and Boots Natural Collection had to offer. Probably too much perhaps. We always did a sniff test of the armpits and would be horrified to be seen as having BO. Chewing gum was as important as oxygen to us incase we had bad breath. I don't think we were paranoid about smelling but smelling good was very important. Dd1 puts on dirty clothes after showering. Puts fresh make up over a face she's slept in and deodorant is apparently unnecessary. She smells awful. She doesn't live with me now but when we see her it's hard not to notice the dirty clothes and smell. I do have a very sensitive nose but even her soap dodging sister says she smells. I thought it was just my kids but their friends are the same with regards to smell. Greasy hair, sweaty smell, and look unkempt. If I say anything to Dds they are highly offended and say they don't need a shower or to use deodorant. What's going on?