Hi, I need some advise on what other parents allow their 13/14 year old daughter's to do regarding boys.
My daughter has recent been out on a date with a boy she met at a school disco (joint date for lunch with another friend and her new boyfriend). The girls go to the same school (girls school), and the boys same age as the girls both go to the local boys school. But none of them live near each other, and can't just pop out to see each other - both schools are a drive away.
My DD and her BF snap each other and talk/video chat everyday. She told me that they didn't kiss on their date, but I saw a message from her friend asking if her Bf was a good kisser.
At the moment it's fine, she has lots of after school clubs, but I know she wants to see her boyfriend more often and asked to see him with the friends after school on Friday.
I've spoken to two friends of mine with girls of a similar age and one didn't want her daughter dating anyone and the other friend's daughter has a boyfriend, but he's more of a friend (in the same class together, but at a different school and only see each other at their houses).
What restrictions or boundaries do you have with your girls? My DD is a risk taker and mature for her age, so I think she'll happily let the relationship move quickly given the chance.
We've talked about boundaries, sex, pregnancy etc as these are subjects we discuss anyway. I don't want to be too strict and push her away or feel she has to lie to me about where she is, but I also think she's still young for a relationship.
Any advise?