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Advice wanted re problem with another boy in year 7 of high school

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Cocktail70 · 16/09/2022 08:36

My son and his friends have all gone to the same high school together. They are really good, sensible boys, well mannered, respectful to adults etc.
There is another boy from the same primary school who is a troublemaker. He's gone to the same high school.
At breaks, lunch and home time the boys are meeting up and this boy has attached himself to the group. Since the first day he has done numerous things, inside and outside of school, some pretty dangerous. The boys don't want to be around this as they don't want to get into any trouble. The parents have said the same and have told the boys they aren't allowed to walk home with this boy or "hang around" with him in school.
The boys have told him this and have walked off or explained to him they aren't allowed.
This has resulted in the child accusing the boys of bullying and his parent has gone to the school about it. I am going to speak to the school today but what happens in these situations at high school.?
The boys were seperated at primary because of the same issue to prevent problems, but it's just a free for all at high school. The other parents have changed their working hours so they can take /fetch the kids so there's no chance of walking home with this boy.
We don't want to rectify the situation as in they have mediation at school etc and all become friends because we've had 7 years of this already and don't want this anymore. I just want them to stay apart which seems almost impossible.
Any tips on what I can say to the school today as I want to have a good relationship with them.

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W0tnow · 23/09/2022 18:47

Ask the school to contact the primary school? I don’t know if they can do that, but at least you could argue that they will get impartial feedback about the boy?

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