I am losing the will to live with DD and friendship drama. How on earth does a teen become popular and meet new people? My DD is 17 and in sixth form and I seem to have spent most of her school life telling her to "ignore them and play with someone else". I really thought by the time we got to sixth form that she would have found some of her own tribe and formed some friendships with people to socialise with outside of school. The school environment just seems to be toxic, with a load of false people who feed off drama.
Every time she seems to make some new friends, some drama erupts and she ends up being pushed out of the group. The girls seem to be such bitches, and with social media I just despair for the mental health of the youth of today. She has tried to integrate in with other people and doesn't seem to be able to progress past just casually hanging out at school. Then sees on social media people out and about at this party and that party to which she is not invited. Everyone else seems to her to forge connections with others which she just doesn't seem to be able to do. She never seems to be popular and a recently planned school trip sees her being the only person who hasn't got someone to share with for accommodation. She is questioning why she is unlikeable and her confidence is next to none :-(
I now find myself saying again - I am sure you will find some proper friends at uni..... but I don't know whether she will based on past experiences. She seems to get on better with lads, but inevitably they aren't sustainable friendships and they either end up fancying her, or getting girlfriends and then drifting away.
Anybody got any advice or suggestions??
I am finding it is draining me with her being so upset on a regular basis about having hardly any friends. I could cry with her when she cries - I find it heartbreaking :-(
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Teenissues2022 · 20/06/2022 22:31
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