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Falling behind at A level - when is it too late to catch-up?

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WhatsitallaboutAlfie1 · 24/02/2022 12:05

For various reasons, including friendship issues, absenteeism, some MH issues (depression/anxiety) and Covid etc, our dd has really fallen behind at A level. Her attendance rate is around 65%. She is in lower sixth. We are trying to 'sort' the issues with school, GP, CAMHS (hopeless) etc but at what point do you think it becomes untenable to sit A levels? We might be able to secure a tutor etc (although dd would have to really engage with that in her spare time), and endless propping up seems a little counterproductive, but just wondered if others had been in this situation and if they had really managed to pull things round? When is late too late?

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TeenPlusCat · 25/02/2022 07:55

I'd be tempted to:

  • reduced timetable now, just 1 or 2 subjects. Good to keep busy. Unless the depression/friendship issues make this worse
  • aim to spend next 6 months on recovery you can't rush these thing
  • restart in state in september (and use money to be saved from y13 fees on private psychiatrist, CBT or whatever)
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