Who's BU

9 replies

Daniel2008 · 14/02/2022 20:11

So dp keeps pointing at dd14 when he's trying to play with her and wind her up and she really doesn't like it. He's been asked and told multiple times that she doesn't like it and to stop but still does. Just had an argument as he's done it again and his response was "well she needs to stop trying to play with me then" he now thinks I'm unreasonable for going mad as I said he should be the mature adult and that he's behaving like a child with his response

OP posts:

Wolfiefan · 14/02/2022 20:14

What do you mean by trying to play with??

Original poster

Daniel2008 · 14/02/2022 20:16

We were playing monopoly and teasing about who was winning

OP posts:

GoldenBlue · 14/02/2022 20:47

Pointing at people is always rude, it's an aggressive hand gesture in most situations

bucketsoflove · 14/02/2022 22:29

He is being a prat. Why is an adult intentionally upsetting a teenager? What a big man he is

Is DP her father?

MrsTerryPratchett · 14/02/2022 22:33

He's doing an excellent job of showing that some men don't respect women's boundaries. You need to coach her on what to do. Tell him to fuck off would be favourite seeing as he doesn't respect her perfectly polite requests.

AchillesPoirot · 14/02/2022 22:34

He is.

Aquamarine1029 · 14/02/2022 22:35

He is her father? Why are you with a man who intentionally upsets your child? What a dick.

Original poster

Daniel2008 · 15/02/2022 07:36

He's stepdad and it's very much a reason why were in the process of splitting up, I just wanted proof to show him that I'm not just being unreasonable and that his actions are actually in the wrong, thank you everyone

OP posts:

AlexaShutUp · 15/02/2022 07:39

He's being a knob.

Flip