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Staying at a boys house

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DMVJ · 11/12/2021 01:37

Hi
I let my daughter stay for two hours at a boys house she's 14. From 8 till 10.

I think she was a big young. What do people think?

Parents were in. She's been in the day. This was a Friday night. She's so nasty to me. And nice to her dad. Who lets her have everything she wants.
What do people think?

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Aquamarine1029 · 11/12/2021 01:42

If she and her friend were appropriately supervised, I don't see a problem with it.

As for her being nasty, make sure that behaviour is met with consequences, like not being able to visit her friend.

DMVJ · 11/12/2021 05:33

It's her boyfriend. Does that make a difference? They were supervised. Actually she went there in the day too. And that might not have been supervised. She was in his bedroom.

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DMVJ · 11/12/2021 05:39

What about putting your 14 year olds in an Uber? How do mums feel about that?

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twoblueskies · 11/12/2021 17:21

Hmmm , my 14 year old bought her bf home . He lived with his dad and often in the house alone so I didn't let my DD go so often kept at my house . They had the front room but I had to remove all blankets as they made a bed . I spoke with both of them telling them i was not giving them room to have sex . Later on in relationship I let them go upstairs together to game not allowed in bed
Later found photos on her phone and messages suggesting they were being v intimate . He then got into trouble with his dad for having love bites on his body . I told him he could see my daughter on my terms and he ended it . He later apologised but it was too late .

The next bf will not be allowed in her room

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