Ds has been very challenging to say the last the last few months. For his birthday all he's asked for is money. He smokes and has previously been caught smoking weed so I've been really reluctant to give him any. However he hasn't given me any ideas. So basically Im going to give him £100 but if I catch him smoking weed then I done with giving him a penny more which I will be telling him. I've brought him coffee he likes, Nike socks and designer boxers. Lynx and aftershave so maybe £150 spent on him in total. He isn't bothered or mature enough for driving lessons which I would have brought. But under current circumstances I'm not overly on the mood to go out on his birthday. We will do a family meal with his gf and cake etc. Do you think this is enough? I think he will expect more.