I looked back on an old Facebook memories post today from when I was 13 and I was quite taken aback by what I'd written. I do remember this happening as well.
I wanted to go to a concert with my friend, with my friend's mum offering to come as well to look after us. To be allowed to go, I had to agree to practice the violin (which I hated) every day for a year, would have the ticket taken off me if I misbehaved once before the concert - and I had to pay for the ticket myself. I did go to the concert in the end (and I highly doubt I practiced the violin every day, it's around this period where I was allowed to quit) but I remember having a huge row with my mum the day before where she told me I wasn't allowed to go over some discrepancy.
I just turned to my partner and said I would never want to look after our children like that...but is this as unreasonable to me to other people? To me it's look both overly strict and silly, considering they were so unachievable, although I think paying for the ticket is fine. And I think as I've got older and struggled to connect and socialise with people, I wouldn't want to make it so hard to take part in a social situations that are monitored by parents/relatively safe. On the other hand, maybe I'm still a little hurt from it over a decade later and it's not that unreasonable!