Dd17 just been diagnosed with adhd and possible bipolar 2. History of self harm, low mood and 1x suicide attempt.
I try so so hard to support her but have just been told I dont understand and always say the wrong thing. Like always. I tell her I am trying but it always goes the same way with me being told I'm basically being a shit mum ( not in those words but it's how she makes me feel) 
Where did it all go so wrong. Why, when you love them so bloody much and try so hard, does it appear to them you're not doing motherhood very well.
She doesn't say it in an angry, nasty way. Just crying and like she's so disappointed in me.
What is the point of trying at all