Hello, Ive been having troubles with my teen recently and when he gets angry he goes from 0 - 100 and some of the things he says are very hurtful.
We had a disagreement yesterday just before he went to his fathers house that upset me. That and other things just really got me down and i didnt sleep much and had a cry at bedtime and couldnt stop.
This morning i had to pick up my children and take them to school, looking tired and a cod fish face, my teen noticed and kept questioning me why i look sad.
He didnt give up asking then said if anyone in the family have died i want to know before school, he kept pushing and i was telling him im fine, but he didnt give up and refused to go school till i told him, so i said "its nothing to worry about but its just a few other things and the argument yesterday have just made me feel a bit sad. "
After i said that he said "is that all" then got angry then started bossing his siblings about leaving for school then said "great now youve put me in a bad mood" and then left for school.
I dont know what to do now, i feel like im going in circles as i was upset that we argued and he went to his fathers on a bad note, but some of his behaviour is not so easy forgiven and i have to process whats has gone on and what went wrong and how to move forwards.
My teen argues with his sibling and ive just found out that the sibling is pulling her hair out because of the situation.
My teen gets angry, says nasty things then when he calms down he says he didnt mean what he says that wants us to just forget what happened but the feelings are still there.
I feel like im blaming him but im really worried about his attitude will get him into trouble.
The behaviour between sibling has spilled over to their fathers house but he just gives empty threats of losing their devices etc, sometimes the argument will start at their fathers and then its time to come home and the argument will continue and it will be left to me to do the taking away devices. I just feel such a bad cop.